difference

I welcome your response on a confusion of a feminist friend.

Talking on difference why do we not address the issue of difference between men and women in the same way as we address the diffence between women of different caste, class and region. How do we talk of gender?

I often felt that the approach we have on the older issues is a bit partial. we try to evade the issues of classic feminism thinking that it is older and pretend we live in a society where many earlier question has been resolved. Another thing I want to get your response is that when you move from one position to another and has resolved certain problems how will you respond to the sections of society which is still in the grip of that problem. Will you live in a world of your own without much communication with more patriarchal society? Or will you perform many roles and carry many selves and spend more time deciding how should i comment here and which body language i shouuld exhibit here?

These are the question I encounter only now when I stopped and declared to myself that I have stopped my search for an utopia and have to be social. I would like to be introduced to you in terms of the socialization of your feminist subjects.