Tuesday, April 28, 2009

we don't get formal education for emotional growth. It comes as extras from parents and at times from friends. Even when we start relationships very seriously we tend to be irresponsible with sharing knowledge about one's growth in it. We share the pleasure we gain in it and the sufferings it has offered. We don't care to communicate the wealth of knowledge.
we have intellectual companions termed so. But do we term somebody as emotional companion?
It is as if we need emotions in any relationship and need not give any emphasis to it., which I doubt.
I have been studying my friends emotionally rather than intellectually. Some of them manages to balance their self without much damage only by not giving themselves to much in others. Those who try to uncover their self and risk it are found bitter and wounded. Eventually they become arrogant. Those who have played in the field stop and watch now. Only the freshers give a try.
everyone is afraid.
only ignorant take risk.